Everyman in the world experiences butterflies on his wedding day. It is only natural being that it is probably the biggest day of one’s life. One of the best and most sure methods to keep calm is having a great grooms speech which will make you have veins as cool as ice during your ceremony. Here are some few tips to help you out.
There is no need of saying the same thing over and over again like a broken record. Cross check your speech and delete items that have already been spoken by the people whose speeches have come before you. That is unless you want to bore the audience.
Salute the in-laws
If you want to set your marriage off on the right foot, it is very important to acknowledge the in-laws and thank them for all their efforts and more importantly, letting you marry their daughter.
Thank your parents
No descent man on the planet can forget to thank the people who have brought him up. Thanking your parents is a must!
Keep it snappy
There is no need of mentioning a long list of people. Remember, they are here for your wedding, not to hear your class roll.
Compliment the wife
Make a positive comment about your wife’s dressing and appearance. This is sure to keep her smiling throughout your speech.
While giving your speech, do not forget to maintain eye contact with your pretty wife, just a little confirmation that you know who you are marrying.
Focus on your wife
Make sure your wife is the main topic of your grooms speech. You can go off-course a little, but remember to return to the main point, that is your wife.
Give her the title she deserves
Anytime you refer to her, always remember to call her by her new name and title ‘My Wife’.
Try to be as serious as possible. A few jokes are not harmful but do not get carried away and turn into a cartoon character.
Try as much to avoid any sort of vulgarity in your speech. You do not want to freak the guests out, especially the in-laws
This step by step guide will help you have a grooms speech that can be ranked among the greatest speeches in history.